Calling all sapphic queers, dykes, lesbians, bi/pan babes, trans femmes, and nonbinary lovers of women & femme energy!
What do your desires feel like? Your yes, your no, your “I don’t know yet”? What does it feel like to be held in someone else’s no?
This is not primarily a sex or play party (though sexual, sensual, and erotic moments may unfold), but an intimacy skill-building space. We gather to explore communication, desires, and boundaries. We center autonomy, consent, harm reduction, and the magic of non-normative, queer relational practices.
There is something deeply political and powerful about sapphic connection. About choosing softness, curiosity, and mutual care in a world that doesn’t always make space for us. This gathering prioritizes folks on the demisexual and asexual spectrum, those new to kink, and anyone wanting to more fully embody their desires in a supported, affirming environment.
Bring your sexy desires, your tender ones, your silly cravings, your yearning for closeness, your need for laughter, your want to be witnessed.
In this space, we practice RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink). We encourage bringing your most recent STI results, but no one will be turned away, just come with honesty, care, and respect for one another’s autonomy and health.
If this is your first QDP, you’re so welcome here. Truly.
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Dress Code: Whatever makes you feel like you. Soft, sexy, masc, femme, cozy, chaotic, we want you comfortable, embodied, and open to possibility.
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Things to Bring:
- Your desires!! They can be sexual, sensual, caring, or silly. Try brainstorming (ex "I want someone to brush my teeth”, “I want to do a staring contest”, “I want someone to stroke my inner thighs during the next 3 dares”) What are you craving right now?
- Toys! We want this to be fun, so if there’s a stuffie you want to cuddle with, a new dildo you want to try out, or a fidget you need to stay grounded, we encourage you to bring them out!
- Snacks :3 Part of community building is eating together, and we can use snacks for both staying fed and for play!
- Cuddly & sensory items! Maybe it’s your favorite blanket, maybe it’s a head scratcher, feel free to bring items that help you explore different sensations.
- Essentially, we want to create a space where you can be silly, brave, hungry, and feel safe to trust the people around you to co-create your desires. Bring whatever you’d like to help make those desires happen~~ we are so excited to see you <3