FIRST TIME?
It’s okay, we were new once too. You don't have to know what you're doing yet.
Welcome to Samsara.
From the outside, the Temple can be a lot to take in. We are a sexuality temple, a ritual space, a queer community, a place to dance, learn, play, worship, make art, get curious, or simply be around other humans.
Your first visit does not require you to understand everything.
We'll show you the way.
You can watch.
You can ask questions.
You can always say no.
You can change your mind.
You can take a break in the sensory room.
You can leave when you’re ready.
You can do absolutely nothing.
Your experience belongs to you.
Before You Arrive
READ YOUR EVENT LISTING
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Every event has its own container, theme, and expectations. Read the event description carefully so you know what kind of experience you're walking into.
COMPLETE YOUR FORMS
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Your ticket confirmation will provide the location and access to any required attendance forms. Please complete everything before you arrive.
BRING YOUR ID
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We take the safety and privacy of our community seriously, including the screening and confidentiality practices required for the Temple.
ARRIVE EARLY
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Give yourself at least 20 minutes before the scheduled start time. You'll have time to check in, get oriented, and take a breath before entering the experience.
COME FRESH
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Please arrive freshly showered and practice considerate personal hygiene. We also ask that you avoid heavy perfumes and colognes so the space remains comfortable.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Whatever makes you feel comfortable.
Dress for the occasion and check your individual event listing for any specific theme or dress requirements.
Many Samsara events are clothing-optional. Some community and public events require clothing.
You never have to take anything off.
Nudity is never consent. Clothing is never an invitation. Your body belongs to you.
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YOUR TEMPLE BAG
Think of it as your personal little kit for feeling comfortable, grounded, and at home.
You might bring:
Water or another non-alcoholic beverage
A robe or comfortable clothing
A blanket or pillow
Personal wellness or comfort items
A journal
An altar object or something meaningful to you
Snacks or finger foods to share
Alcohol is not permitted in the Temple.
Bring whatever helps you feel like yourself.
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Samsara can look different from one event to the next, and there is no single way to experience the Temple.
You may encounter nudity, intimacy, sexuality, ritual, play, conversation, dancing, art, or things you've never experienced before. You may also find people simply relaxing, connecting, learning, or enjoying the space together.
You are never expected to participate in anything you encounter.
You can watch without joining. You can accept an invitation or decline it. You can change your mind at any point. You can move to another space, take a break, or simply enjoy your own company.
There is no expectation that you arrive experienced, adventurous, or ready for anything in particular.
Come curious. Take your time. Let your experience unfold at your own pace.
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PAUSE.
You have somewhere to go.
Our sensory room is near the entrance of the Temple and is available when you need a quieter space.
Step away. Get some water. Take a breath. Talk to a Temple Fae.
You never have to push through discomfort to prove that you belong here.
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Our Temple Fae are here to help hold the container and support the community.
If you have a question, feel uncomfortable, need help navigating a situation, or simply don't know what to do next, ask a Fae.
You don't have to figure everything out by yourself.
When You Arrive
CHECK IN
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A Temple Fae will greet you and guide you through the check-in process. You'll provide your name, show identification and complete any required screening and confidentiality agreements.
GET ORIENTED
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You won't be expected to walk into an unfamiliar space and magically know what to do. A member of our team will show you around, point out the facilities, explain anything you need to know, and help you get settled.
LEARN THE CONTAINER
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Every Temple experience has expectations. You'll learn what applies to the particular event you're attending, including consent practices, community standards, and how to get help if you need it.
TAKE A BREATH
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Once you're inside, you don't have to immediately participate in anything. Look around. Get comfortable. Meet people. Ask questions. Take your time. Take your time. There is no need to rush into the experience.
HAVE YOUR EXPERIENCE
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You might dance. You might talk. You might learn. You might play. You might meditate. You might connect. You might watch. You might do absolutely nothing.
All of those are valid ways to experience Samsara.
WHEN YOU'RE READY
Take a breath.
You don't have to know what you're doing.
You don't have to know what you're looking for.
You don't have to have it all figured out.
Just bring your curiosity, your boundaries, and your willingness to be present.
The rest can unfold from there.