Upcoming events.
Queer Desire Party POC Edition
This month, we're calling all queer & trans ppl of color! Let's connect with each other and carve out a space for our desires together. <3 This will be a BIPOC only space, and we will see the rest of you wonderful kinksters in July!
What do your desires feel like? Your yes and your no and your I don't know? What does hearing someone else's no feel like?
This is not primarily a sex or play party (though sexual, sensual, and erotic acts may occur), but an intimacy skill-building party. We gather to communicate our desires and our boundaries, to cultivate increased autonomy, group-level intimacy, harm reduction, consent, and other 'non-normative' relational practices. There is a political significance of coming together this way! This party is open for those on the demisexual and asexual spectrum, for those new to kink, and for anyone who wants to learn how to more authentically embody their desires and receive support. Feel free to bring your sexy desires as well as your non-sexual, your silly, your vulnerable, and your political desires.
In this space we believe in RACK - Risk Aware Consensual Kink. We prefer that you bring your most recent STI results, but no one will be turned away. Please make informed decisions and practice honesty and nonjudgment when conversing with folks about sexual health.
We encourage you to read the zine before you come, and afterwards you're welcome to host your own QDP! yippie! :_)
Here is the link to the zine: https://somefriendsinthemidwest.itch.io/queer-desire-party
If this is your first QDP, no worries 😎 Here’s some optional ideas on how to prepare:
Dress Code: Whatever you want! You can be sexy, you can be cozy, we just want you to be comfortable and open to new experiences.
Things To Bring:
Your desires!! They can be sexual, sensual, caring, or silly. Try brainstorming (ex "I want someone to brush my teeth”, “I want to do a staring contest”, “I want someone to stroke my inner thighs during the next 3 dares”) What are you craving right now?
Your favorite snacks! :3 Part of community building is eating together, and we can use snacks for both staying fed and for play!
Toys! We want this to be fun, so if there’s a stuffie you want to cuddle with, a new dildo you want to try out, or a fidget you need to stay grounded, we encourage you to bring them out!
Cuddly & sensory items! Maybe it’s your favorite blanket, maybe it’s a head scratcher, feel free to bring items that help you explore different sensations.
Essentially, we want to create a space where you can be silly, brave, hungry, and feel safe to trust the people around you to co-create your desires. Bring whatever you’d like to help make those desires happen~~ we are so excited to see you <3
Clothing Optional Yoga
Finding the inner freedom in your yoga practice without clothes is magic; doing just by yourself, knowing that you and every one else in the room is not going to be sharing touch, this is our sacred ground. This is where we reclaim our bodies. Shed self judgement, practice self compassion and move toward pleasure, self acceptance, and self love. Join our teacher @DeviantRose44 for a juicy, juicy practice.
Note: all of our yoga offerings are 90 minutes. This length of class allows you to get fully warmed up and embodied into the practice. It also allows you enough time to then get cooled down and lie in shavasana (corpse pose), then reintegrate back into the real world. These 90 minutes are our gift to you, please treasure them.
Mutually Assured Satisfaction - Advanced Negotiation Practical Course
Hi my name is @humansommelier, or Tucker! This is a class on advanced negotiation. This is for anyone to attend but you may receive the most benefit from it if you are already an experienced player in our communities.
Do you want to take your skills to the next level? Take it from someone who has done things wrong and done things right. The ways I’ve learned negotiation have been through continuous education, messing up, and learning to do better. Alongside a relentless penchant for curiosity, reading, and learning from others.
If you attend this class you can expect to leave with reading materials from our facilitator and we fully anticipate this to be a very open and discussion oriented interactive and collaborative setting.
We will be having an extensive deep dive into how and why negotiation is so important and how many different kinds of negotiation there really are. What is ethical? What is not? How can we build safer containers to do the insane things we want to do with one another?
I will offer information from books I have read that has been distilled into a digestible format, lived experience that I can lean on, and hopefully bring up some words and terms you’ve never heard of that you can use in your negotiations!
Schedule of Events:
7:00pm-7:30pm Doors - NO late entry
7:30pm-9:30pm Class and Discussion
9:30pm-10:00pm Optional open Q&A from anyone to anyone on their negotiation practices, any feedback on curriculum, and knowledge sharing.
I am interested in anarchistic pedagogy. Meaning this is a moment to facilitate and discuss rather than be the sole authority figure in the room.
This is not intended to be a lecture.
Attendees are encouraged to help shape the future curriculum by bringing ideas of their own around consent and negotiation to enhance this conversation.
Hopefully you learn something from me and I learn something from you
As an overview, in this course we will talk through:
Ethical Ethos
Consent Frameworks
Consent Models
Advanced Negotiation Partnership
Micro-Consent Practices
Power Exchange and You
Age and Agency
Life vs. Lifestyle
The Company You Keep
Restorative Action (featuring @dropdeadfae)
Why should you listen to me? I don’t know, maybe you shouldn’t. But my core competencies include:
Working with the Kink Professional Standards Alliance. Facilitating Module 1: History, Cultural Context, Roles, Consent, Negotiations, Boundaries, and Micro-Consent moments in the Certified Professional Kink Practitioner program. Look them up for more detail
Kink observer and enthusiast for 20 years
Lived experience of 8 years (impact, wax, invasives, CNC, power exchange, authority transfer, m/s, d/s, pet play)
Reading and continuous education (comes with receipts)
Objectified! A Night of Submission and Obedience
Step into a space where the line between human and object blurs. This is an immersive evening dedicated to the sharp focus of high protocol, the discipline of physical restraint, and the quiet intensity of sensual stillness.
Whether you are here to admire the design or to become part of the architecture, the evening is built around the raw beauty of absolute surrender.
This version of the event is a strict, high-protocol environment curated and held by @peaches_andwings and @KC_BullBQ.
We are curating a specific exhibition of 15-20 human pieces for the evening. If you wish to submit, space yourself into the room, and serve as furniture for the event, you must contact @peaches_andwings directly to join the roster.
Inspiration for the Exhibition:
Utility and Structure: Chairs, footstools, low tables, book stands, coat racks, vanity stations.
Erotic Surfaces: Specially positioned benches, toy displays, support pillows.
Atmosphere and Decor: Living altars, candle holders, mirrors, floor lamps, designated ash trays.
Endurance and Degradation: Doorstops, welcome mats, trash receptacles, punishment posts.
Age 21+
Litha Ritual
Litha at Samsara Temple is our high-summer celebration of sunshine, laughter, and the simple joy of being gloriously alive. Think backyard cookout vibes with sacred intention woven in, warm air, playful connection, and that golden-hour glow that makes everything feel possible. As the sun reaches its peak, we gather to celebrate abundance, friendship, chosen family, and the fire that keeps us moving forward. Expect light ritual, shared reflection, maybe a little movement, maybe a little mischief, and a whole lot of community warmth. This is a queer-affirming, consent-centered space to show up bright, bring your aliveness, and soak in the sweetness of summer together.
World Pup 2026
Nestled right in between two World Cup games here in Kansas City June 25th and June 27th…join us on June 26, 2026 for an event unlike anything you’ve ever been to before. Are you in town for the World Cup games in Kansas City? Are you a kinky freak who loves to see the scenes when you travel? We want to greet you to our city with flare and style.
🌍 Parade of Nations
The event kicks off with a colorful “parade of nations,” where attendees represent different countries or cities that they’re here representing - whether it's where you live now or a place you're from! Show off your pet play gear! Style with national colors if you want! Pup hoods, tails, jerseys, and flags. Or whatever brings you comfort! We will have music, chanting, and a warm welcome for all!
⚽ Pup-Themed Football Mosh
Instead of a formal match, our “soccer” portion is for chaotic play! A padded play for participants to chase footballs and play! Score goals and have fun! Bounding, tumbling, barking, and lighthearted competition.
🎉 Social & Community Space
Beyond the main activities, the event includes areas for relaxing, socializing, and connecting. Lounging space, music, and themed decor that blend football with pet play aesthetics.
🍑 Pet Play Orgy
We reach the main event of our night! Samsara Temple is a sex positive space where much can happen but nothing is promised. We will walk you through our consent chat, how we do an orgy, and then play opens up for the evening!
Age 21+
Tickets: $44.44 General Admission
Lughnasa
Lughnasadh at Samsara Temple is our celebration of the first harvest, a time to gather what we’ve grown, honor the work we’ve done, and share in the abundance of community. As summer begins its slow turn toward autumn, we come together to reflect on the seeds planted months ago and recognize what is now ripening in our lives. Expect light ritual, shared gratitude, playful connection, and space to acknowledge both effort and reward. This is a queer-affirming, consent-centered gathering to celebrate growth, resilience, and the sweetness that comes from tending something with care. Come ready to harvest, to honor your labor, and to share the feast of being alive.
Clown Orgy
More details TBA!
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Outline of Events:
6:30PM: Doors Open
7:00PM: DOORS LOCK. No late entry.
7:00-8:30PM: TBA
8:30-9:00PM: Consent Chat
9:00-11:30PM: Orgy
11:30-12:00AM: Aftercare
12:00AM: GTFO
Samhain
Samhain at Samsara Temple is our sacred gathering at the thinning of the veil, a night to honor the dead, reflect on impermanence, and remember what truly matters. As the wheel turns toward the dark half of the year, we come together in community to light candles, speak names, release what is complete, and listen for the quiet wisdom that lives beyond fear. Through guided meditation, ritual, and shared reflection, we create a queer-affirming, consent-centered space to grieve, to honor, and to stand gently in the mystery. Come ready to remember, to let go, and to feel the deep magic of being alive at the edge of seasons.
Yule
Yule at Samsara Temple is our gathering at the Winter Solstice, the longest night and the sacred turning toward light. In the stillness of winter, we come together to rest, reflect, and gently welcome the returning sun. Through candlelight ritual, guided meditation, shared warmth, and intentional intention-setting, we honor both the darkness that holds us and the light that is slowly rising. This is a queer-affirming, consent-centered space to soften, to gather close, and to remember that even in the longest night, hope is already on its way. Come ready to be held by community, to kindle your inner flame, and to step into the new cycle with quiet courage.
Humans Anonymous
Please join us for a new kind of recovery meeting.
Humans Anonymous is a support group designed for anyone navigating the challenges of being human. Grounded in the CoDA format, this is a safe, structured space to find community, connection, and sobriety.
Whether you are actively working through an addiction to substances, processing behaviors, or toxic relationships, you are welcome here. Come as you are, share your truth, and find your people. @MissVelvetShadow will be leading this group discussion.
“Intro To” Orgy
The Invitation:
Whether you are stepping into a temple space for the first time or you’ve been a part of the Samsara family for years, this evening is for you.
For our newcomers, this is the perfect, low-pressure entry point to understand our culture of consent and connection. For our seasoned players, this is an invitation to slow down, sharpen your energetic tools, and lead by example. We believe the best "Intro" is one where the community comes together to co-create a container that is as deep as it is safe.
What’s Different?
Unlike our standard events where we move quickly into play, we are dedicating the first half of the night to a consent workshop. This isn't just a "how-to" - it’s a guided journey through self inquiry and communication games designed to drop everyone into their bodies.
Seasoned folks: Come to refine your "slow-burn" skills and enjoy the luxury of a 90-minute warm-up.
Newer folks: Come to learn the ropes in a space held by those who know it best.
Schedule of events:
6-7p Doors Open
7p Doors CLOSE
7-8:30p Consent Workshop and Games
8:30-11:30p Open Play
11:30-12a Aftercare Snuggles
12a- GTFO
We're now accepting Venmo and Cash at the door. At the door pricing is $44.
Age 21+
Postponed: The Dark Dance: Heavy Impact
The Dark Dance: The First Step
Heavy impact is often misunderstood as “just hitting harder.”
It isn’t.
It is rhythm. It is control. It is communication through force, timing, and intention.
The Hammer’s Waltz is the next movement in The Dark Dance series, created and taught by @revik wulfe, focusing on heavy impact as a discipline within edgeplay. Where the first class explored the nature of the edge itself, this class steps into the moment of contact, the decision to strike, the responsibility behind it, and the skill required to do it well.
This is not a performance space, and it is not a play party. This is an educational workshop centered on understanding the why and how behind heavy impact before it ever becomes action.
Participants will explore:
• The mindset required to engage in heavy impact responsibly
• Presence, emotional awareness, and reading a partner in real time
• The role of ego and how it disrupts safety and connection
• Impact tools (hands, floggers, paddles, crops, canes) and how they differ
• Thuddy vs. stingy sensation and how to layer intensity
• Safe vs. dangerous target zones and basic anatomy awareness
• Body mechanics, rhythm, and control in striking
• Communication strategies during high-intensity scenes
• Emotional responses, distress signals, and aftercare considerations
Heavy impact is not chaos. Its choreography.
A three count rhythm of approach, strike, and settle, where every movement carries intention, and every moment requires awareness.
This class is designed for those who are curious about impact, those beginning to explore heavier play, and experienced players who want to refine their understanding of presence, safety, and control.
Outline of Events:
6:30–7:00 PM | Arrival & Settling In
7:00–9:30 PM | Class
9:30–10:00 PM | Closing Discussion & Integration
10:00 PM | GTFO
Age 21+
Tickets: $22.22 w/promo code: darkdance, or 33.33 at the door Postponed! Reschedule TBA!
Poly Mixer/Discussion Group
The Poly Parlor: Chat and Chill
Outline of Events:
6:30-7:00 Doors
7:00-7:30 Introductions and Consent Chat
7:30-9:00- Polytalk: Types of Polyamory and acceptance of all discussion
9:00-10:00- Poly Mixer (get to know other poly people and extend on conversations from round table)
10:00 GTFO
Join us for a Poly Mixer and Discussion group hosted by @KocoLoco.
Today’s Discussion is on the Parts of Polyamory: Different Types, what they are, and how they work.
Some additional topics of discussion:
Perks and Pitfalls - Pros and Cons of a Poly Lifestyle
Picking Poly - How you discovered and chose the lifestyle.
Age 21+
Tickets: 11.11 w/promo code: poly
Sex Magick
Join your host @DeviantRose44 for Sex Magick!
This powerful practice is my favorite way to manifest not only physical desires, but states of being. It's also a lot of fun!
It's most effective when done with intention, as a ritual practice, and when followed up with action steps. It's much more than just thinking about what you want during orgasm.
In this workshop you'll uncover a core desire to play with, drop into a potent five senses reality meditation to experience having your desire in present time, a self-pleasure and/or breath activation through your entire system, and setting a plan of action to commit yourself to. You'll also bring awareness to obstacles that may come up for you.
Because integration, consistency, and practice are necessary pieces of transformation, you'll receive a link for a DropBox file of instructions and the meditations.
What you'll need:
Yoga mat
Blankets
Pillows
A journal
Eye masks
Lube or body friendly oil
Optional: non-vibrating toys
An open mind and heart
Duration: 2 hours
Price: $44.44 in advance $55.55 at the door
Clothing Optional Yoga
Finding the inner freedom in your yoga practice without clothes is magic; doing just by yourself, knowing that you and every one else in the room is not going to be sharing touch, this is our sacred ground. This is where we reclaim our bodies. Shed self judgement, practice self compassion and move toward pleasure, self acceptance, and self love. Join our teacher @DeviantRose44 for a juicy, juicy practice.
Note: all of our yoga offerings are 90 minutes. This length of class allows you to get fully warmed up and embodied into the practice. It also allows you enough time to then get cooled down and lie in shavasana (corpse pose), then reintegrate back into the real world. These 90 minutes are our gift to you, please treasure them.
Sapphic Orgy
Forget the standard night out. We’re hosting the ultimate sapphic night in. This is a slumber party style event designed for deep connection, soft textures, and uninhibited play. Think of it as a soft landing where the tea is hot, the skin is glowing, and the intimacy is intentional.
What's In Store:
Tea Party!
We’ll begin with a communal tea ceremony. Please bring your favorite tea and your most beloved tea cup. We will provide plenty of fresh water and light refreshments.
Poetry!
A dedicated space for us to share words that move us. Bring a poem (your own or a favorite) to read to the group.
Intimacy Games!
We’ll move through a series of curated games designed to foster genuine sapphic connection, vulnerability, and desire.
Face Masks!
We are providing face masks, plus a "kitchen apothecary" station where you can mix your own masks using honey and other fresh, skin-loving ingredients.
Play Time!
Once we’ve connected through words and wellness, the space will transition into open, consensual orgy play.
Schedule:
6:30-7p: Doors Open
7p: Doors Close - No Late Entry.
7-8:30p: Tea, Face Masks, Poetry, Games
8:30-9p: Consent Chat
9-11:30p: Orgy
11:30-12a: Aftercare
To maintain the intentional, soft, and sacred energy of this space, we ask all participants to help us protect the container. This event is strictly curated for those who self-identify as sapphic; as such, we maintain a firm no cis-men policy to ensure a dedicated environment for women, non-binary, and gender-expansive folks to connect.
Age 21+
Late Night Open Temple
Join us as the temple opens its doors for an evening of exploration, connection, and play. From 8 PM to 3am, the space becomes a living altar to touch, trust, and truth. The window of play remains open all night, with doors open until 10 PM for arrivals. This is a space built on reverence, curiosity, and enthusiastic consent conversations must happen before touch, and consent is queen. Wristbands mark those who have entered this sacred current, and all participants must complete the required forms upon entry. Step into the temple with presence and intention, ready to honor yourself and others. Come as you are whole, wild, and willing to meet yourself through another.
JOY Night
Welcome to Joy Night, a vibrant group dedicated to helping individuals find inner joy within themselves and their community. Each month, we come together for themed activities that inspire connection, creativity, and celebration of who we are.
100% of the money you spend for this event will be given to a charity of Charlie’s choice.
Come ready to have fun and discover the joy within! We can’t wait to see you there!
Porn and Pancakes
What better way to spend a Wednesday evening than with syrup, smut, and sacred silliness? Porn and Pancakes, where stacks of fluffy pancakes meet sticky-fingered laughter and the shared thrill of watching porn together.
This event isn’t about shock value of what we choose to imbibe, it’s a celebration of our shared horny viewing pleasures! We gather to de-stigmatize pleasure, explore the deliciously awkward, and nourish our bodies and libido in equal measure. Expect good food, good company, and a communal experience that turns our fuck puddle into an kitchen table altar of play and connection.
Bring your curiosity, your hunger, and your favorite topping to share. We’ll provide the pancakes and together, we’ll provide the joy.
Age 21+
Tickets: 22.22 w/promo: pancakes
Recovery Group
Recovery looks different for lots of folks. We’re choosing to bring together kinksters, who are actively in recovery for a support group. Come as you are. Find support, community and sobriety. @MissVelvetShadow will be leading this group discussion.
Mid-America Pet Weekend
Mid-America Pet Weekend
Get ready for a weekend dedicated to the intersection of D/s, pet play, and show. Join us for a series of events designed for pets, handlers, and enthusiasts alike.
Schedule & Events
Friday, May 21st
Pet Play 201 and Social/Matchmaking
Time: 7:00 PM – 10:00 PM (Doors: 6:00 PM – 7:00 PM)
Description: Special Guest Instructor @GretaVDT is hosting our Pet Play 201 educational. Perfect for pet players looking to learn more about different archetypes and play styles and those looking for a connection. This session features the class followed by a social hour designed to pair solo pets with handlers and help everyone find their "pack" for the weekend. @dropdeadfae will be leading the Matchmaking portion of this event.
Price: $11
Saturday, May 22nd
Mid-America Pet Show
Time: 3:00 PM – 5:30 PM (Doors: 2:00 PM – 3:00 PM)
Description: Watch (or compete!) as pets and handlers showcase their skills in an homage to traditional pet shows. Categories include an Opening Parade, Obedience & Style Showcase, and an Agility Course. Awards will be given for Best in Control, Best in Chaos, Best in Show, and Best in Gear.
Price: $22 (Competitors/Show Pets are eligible for a discounted ticket of $5.55, sign up here)
Bioluminescence
Time: 7:00 PM – 1:00 AM
Description: Bioluminescence is a natural phenomenon where living organisms produce a glow, are you ready to show off your inner fire?
Show off your pet self in all your glowing glory. This is the perfect opportunity to match with your handler and show off. Glow sticks and light up toys will be provided but come UV/glow ready!
This event is meant to get loud and party down. We highly recommend earplugs and sunglasses for those who wish to come hangout without feeling overstimulated (no strobing lights will be used).Price: $33
Pricing Summary
Individual Events: Friday Night ($11), Saturday Day ($22), Saturday Night ($33)
Weekend Total: $66 (Covers all events from Friday through Sunday morning)
Note for Show Pets: Show pets and competitors tickets are heavily discounted ($5.55) for the show portion.
Important Note: The floors are hardwood, so we highly recommend bringing knee and elbow pads for comfort during play and competition.
Age 21+
ACHILLEAN: A Queer Dudes Party
Schedule of events:
6:30p Doors Open
7p Doors CLOSE
7-7:30 Introductions and Consent Chat
7:30-10 Masculine Desire Games led by @humansommelier
10-10:30 Debrief
A gathering for men and man-aligned people who love, crave, and reach for one another with intensity, devotion, and unapologetic eroticism.
This event honors that tradition:
This is a space intentionally crafted by and for men, masc, transmasc, and man-aligned queer people seeking physical, sensual, sexual, and emotionally charged connection with others in that same constellation.
ACHILLEAN invites you to dance, flirt, explore, connect, and feel the magnetic pull between man-aligned bodies who desire one another openly.
We will play games to break down hegemonic masculinity (the cultural models of 'real manhood') and draw us closer together.
Then we will open the night to ask for what we want from one another. Exploring, kissing, touching, or just being close and connecting in masculine friendship.
Thank you for your attention and your care! Reach out to @humansommelier with any questions. We hope to see you there. <3
Hell’s Club 3 Late Night Open Temple
Join us as the temple opens its doors for an evening of exploration, connection, and play. From 8 PM to 3am, the space becomes a living altar to touch, trust, and truth. The window of play remains open all night, with doors open until 10 PM for arrivals. This is a space built on reverence, curiosity, and enthusiastic consent conversations must happen before touch, and consent is queen. Wristbands mark those who have entered this sacred current, and all participants must complete the required forms upon entry. Step into the temple with presence and intention, ready to honor yourself and others. Come as you are whole, wild, and willing to meet yourself through another.
Tonight's theme is Hell's Club 3. Go watch the YouTube video to get the vibe. Costuming is encouraged.
Fat Cow Party
Fat Cow Party: Celebrate RADICAL Body ACCEPTANCE!
Welcome to the Fat Cow Party, a community dedicated to helping individuals of all body types embrace and celebrate their bodies. Despite the name our mission goes beyond stereotypes; we are here to support anyone grappling with body dysmorphia and to create safe spaces for all to thrive.
At the Fat Cow Party, we believe in dismantling systemic weight stigma and fostering a sense of belonging. To uplift and hear the voices of those experiencing body dysmorphia while building allyship, promoting collective liberation, and fighting against inequitable treatment in our daily life. We invite you to join us in this journey of self love and acceptance, where dressing up in your most fabulous, sexiest, sluttiest cow-inspired attire is not just encouraged. It's a celebration! Together, we’ll foster community, enhance mental well being, and empower one another to find joy in our unique bodies.
Schedule of Events
Gentle MOOvement to Meditation🐮
Lead by the birthday cow Abigail. We will start with a calming movement exercise followed by a meditation to center ourselves in body positivity.
Self-Reflection Portion⭐️
Lead by Cowboy Charles. Participants will be invited to use body-safe markers to write on themselves. Writing and reflecting on the negative experiences they’ve endured against their bodies; doing so while gazing into a mirror. This literal self-reflection will help embody the journey of self-acceptance and self-love.
🐮Cleansing Bath🐸
After self-reflection, participants will have the opportunity to wash away the negativity that they wrote in a bath like ritual.
Afterwards you will have time to share.
Doors 7-7:30pm
Intros
Meditation/Gentle Movements
Ritual
Self Pleasure
Aftercare
Age 21+
Tickets: 22.22 w/promo code: fatcow
Fisting 101
Curious about expanding your understanding of intimacy and connection? This guided workshop offers a chance to learn about preparation, communication, and trust in a supportive, consent-forward environment. Led by an experienced member of the community, the evening invites participants to explore, ask questions, and grow their confidence in a safe and respectful space.
Age 21+
Recovery Group
Recovery looks different for lots of folks. We’re choosing to bring together kinksters, who are actively in recovery for a support group. Come as you are. Find support, community and sobriety. @MissVelvetShadow will be leading this group discussion.
cult kids: saturday morning cartoons!
🎨 SATURDAY MORNING CARTOONS 📺🥣
the best mornings start with pajamas, cartoons, and a GIANT bowl of cereal (っ˘ڡ˘ς)
once a month we'll get together for a cozy morning of classic saturday morning cartoons, comfy vibes, and community. ˙✧˖°📺 ⋆｡˚
bring your faaaaavourite cereal and we'll provide the milk, bowls, and spoons so everyone can build their perfect breakfast ‧₊˚ ⋅ 𓐐𓎩 ‧₊˚ ⋅
come curl up with your cereal, laugh at silly cartoons, and enjoy a soft start to the day with the cvlt (˶˃ ᵕ ˂˶)
remember, every kid needs a grown up they can count on! if you're a big, mommy, daddy, or a friend who loves cartoons, we want you, too!
pajamas encouraged.
blankies welcome.
stuffies required.
because cult kids never grow up...
we just get better snacks! ⟡𓌉◯𓇋₊˚⊹♡
Outline of Events:
10:00a - Doors open and cartoons begin!
11:00a - Doors close
1:00p - Bye bye!
Age 21+
Entry is donation based. Please donate what you can to help cover the cost of the space. Nobody turned away!
Queer Desire Party
What do your desires feel like - your yes, your no, and your I don’t know?
What does it feel like to hear someone else’s no?
This is not a play or hookup party, but an intimacy and communication skill-building gathering. We come together to explore authentic expression, boundaries, and trust cultivating autonomy, collective care, harm reduction, and consent through embodied practice. There is deep social and political power in gathering this way!
This space centers those who are new to intimacy work, on the asexual or demisexual spectrum, or simply curious about building deeper, more intentional relationships. Bring your curiosity, your vulnerability, your humor, and your heart. Together we’ll learn to communicate what we want, what we don’t, and how to hold space for others in return.
You’re encouraged to make informed, honest choices and to engage with compassion and nonjudgment as we grow our collective understanding of care and connection.
KinkedIn: Business Networking
Welcome to KinkedIn: Kansas City Kink Networking! We are the premier community for new and ongoing networking activities for the Kink Community in and around the Kansas City Metro!
Admins work hard to promote local businesses run by members of the kink community and will prevent/remove anything illegal OR with broken links.
cult kids: everyone’s birthday!
🎈 EVERYONE’S BIRTHDAY PARTY 🎈
cult kids know birthdays are too important to only celebrate once a year.
sooooo... we’re throwing a monthly birthday party for EVERYONE!!
if your bday is coming up, just happened, or is sometime soooooon-ish… congrats! this party is for YOU ⸜(｡˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝♡ we’ll have cake, party favors, and we will have a big leading classic birthday celebration games so everyone gets a little moment of being the birthday kid ✧｡◝(ᵔᗜᵔ)◜✧*｡
if you have a birthday near this month (or the next one), message us and we’ll make sure to celebrate you ❤︎
cause cult kids NEVER grow up… we just get louder.
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🧸 Show & Tell (REQUIRED) 🧸
Our cult kids gathering begins with Show and Tell, because the little inside all of us has something VERY IMPORTANT to share.
eeeeeveryone must bring one item to show the group.
don't worry, this can be ANYTHING!
- your favorite stuffie 🧸
- a cool rock you found 🪨
- a toy 🪀
- sumthin from the thrift store 🧮
- something weird in your bag 💸
- even the shirt you're wearing 👕
everyone will share their item and tell us about it for at least one minute. if you finish early, don’t worry! we will ask questions until your minute is complete. this is our sacred time for attention, curiosity, and enthusiastic listening (๑>◡<๑)
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Luna will be running circle stories and other games to close out the fun! Come ready to tell stories and play!
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remember, every kid needs a grown up they can count on! if you're a big, mommy, daddy, or a friend who loves to celebrate, we want you, too!
bring your curiosity (╭ರ_•́)
bring a fun thing! 🎁
and come celebrate everybody’s birthday with the cult 🎂✨
Outline of Events:
6:30-7:00p - Doors
7:00p - Doors CLOSE, no late entry
7-7:30p - Introductions and Show and Tell
7:30-9:00p - Birthday Celebration!
9:00-10:00p - Circle Stories and other Games!
10:00p - Byebye! Party's over!
Age 21+
Tickets: $22.22 with promo code: cultkids
The Dark Dance: The First Step
The Dark Dance: The First Step
Samsara Temple Presents: The Dark Dance: Edgeplay Education & Essentials - The First Step Created and Presented by @RevikWulfe
Edge play has long carried a mystique in kink spaces, whispers of danger, intensity, adrenaline, and the allure of pushing limits. But responsible edge play is not about recklessness or proving how much someone can endure.
It is a dance.
A careful movement between trust, awareness, power, vulnerability, and control.
The Dark Dance: The First Step is the opening class in a multi-part series by @RevikWulfe, exploring the mindset, negotiation, and safety awareness essential for engaging with heavy or edge play responsibly. Rather than teaching techniques for risky acts, this workshop focuses on the foundations that make intense play sustainable and ethical: understanding risk, negotiating clearly, recognizing warning signs, and maintaining presence during scenes that carry real emotional or physical intensity.
Participants will explore:
-What truly defines edge play, and what it isn’t
-The role of ego, responsibility, and trust in heavy scenes
-Negotiation structures and risk assessment
-Recognizing physical and psychological red flags
-Mental readiness and headspace for both tops and bottoms
-Building scenes that feel intense without losing control
This class is designed for curious beginners, experienced players seeking deeper perspective, and anyone interested in approaching heavy kink with intention and respect.
Samsara Temple is excited to host this educational experience created and taught by @RevikWulfe as part of the ongoing Dark Dance series.
Consent and personal responsibility are central to this event. All exercises are optional, discussion is welcome, and attendees are encouraged to engage with curiosity, maturity, and respect.
Outline of Events:
6:30-7:00p - Doors
7:00p-10:00p - Class with @RevikWulfe
10:00p - GTFO
Age 21+
Tickets: $33.33
Beltane Ritual
Beltane at Samsara Temple is our celebration of fire, fertility, passion, and the wild aliveness of being in a body. As the wheel turns toward summer, we gather to honor desire, creativity, and the spark that makes life bloom boldly. Through movement, ritual, laughter, connection, and playful exploration of what sets our hearts and bodies ablaze, we invite the sacred flame within each of us to rise. This is a queer-affirming, consent-centered space to celebrate vitality, flirt with possibility, and step fully into the heat of your becoming. Come ready to feel alive.
Ecstatic Dance and Open Play Party
Ecstatic Dance Beltane Edition: First of May, First of May, Outdoor fucking starts today!
Let the thumping base of The Dance match your throbbing bits as you enter a world of Debaucherous Dirty Dancing where the Ecstatic Dance IS the sexual container. Consent is Queen as you negotiate for dance with or without sexual touch and have the opportunity to experience safe, intimate sensuality, unique energy exchange and the mingling of souls as you bump and grind on the dance floor.
Feel the intense life force of the collective and come ready to fuck long and hard in this extended sexual container fueled by relentless Primal beats.
Schedule of Events:
Doors Open: 6pm
Doors CLOSE: 7pm
Opening and Dance: 7pm - 9pm
Consent Chat: 9pm - 9:30pm
Open Play: 9:30pm - 1:00 am
Aftercare: 1am - 1:30 am
GTFO: 1:30 am
Open House & Artist Showcase
Step inside the Temple during the daylight hours for a fully VANILLA, curiosity-friendly, behind-the-scenes experience.
On May 2nd from 11 AM–2 PM, we’re opening our doors for a 21+ open house, inviting community members and the just-curious to see the space, meet the team, and witness the creative processes that happen inside Samsara.
Though the Temple’s environment features artistic eroticism and pornographic décor, this daytime event is strictly no-play, no-touch, no scenes. It’s a gallery-style walk-through where you can take in the artistry, the atmosphere, and the people who create it.
Karaoke and Open Temple
LAST MINUTE FIRE SALE: EVERYTHING MUST GO!
Okay, not everything, but we’re clearing the floor for some midweek madness at Samsara! Since we’re dropping this last minute, we’re slashing ticket prices and opening the temple doors for a night of pure, unadulterated play.
It’s an Open Temple & Karaoke blowout!
Open play all night long.
We’re passing the mic for Karaoke. Bring your high-key energy and questionable song choices. This is a judgement free zone!
Tix are way cheaper than usual - consider it a reward for your spontaneity.
Grab a spot, save some cash, and let’s get loud. See you in two days!
Age 21+
JOY Night
Welcome to Joy Night, a vibrant group dedicated to helping individuals find inner joy within themselves and their community. Each month, we come together for themed activities that inspire connection, creativity, and celebration of who we are.
100% of the money you spend for this event will be given to a charity of Charlie’s choice.
What to Expect:
Join us for a night of Authentic Relating and Interplay games designed to help you embrace your inner child, find joy, play, and connect with yourself and others. Come curious, leave connected.
ACHILLEAN: A Queer Dudes Party
Schedule of events:
6:30p Doors Open
7p Doors CLOSE
7-7:30 Introductions and Consent Chat
7:30-8p Masculine Desire Games led by @humansommelier
8-10p Sexual Container
A gathering for men and man-aligned people who love, crave, and reach for one another with intensity, devotion, and unapologetic eroticism.
This event honors that tradition:
This is a space intentionally crafted by and for men, masc, transmasc, and man-aligned queer people seeking physical, sensual, sexual, and emotionally charged connection with others in that same constellation.
ACHILLEAN invites you to dance, flirt, explore, connect, and feel the magnetic pull between man-aligned bodies who desire one another openly.
We will play games to break down hegemonic masculinity (the cultural models of 'real manhood') and draw us closer together.
Then we will open the night to ask for what we want from one another. Exploring, kissing, touching, or just being close and connecting in masculine friendship.
Thank you for your attention and your care! Reach out to @humansommelier with any questions. We hope to see you there. <3
A Totally Chill and Very Normal Event
Nothing strange happening here.
Just a completely normal, socially appropriate evening at the temple.
There is absolutely not an underground dog fighting ring happening.
No one will be circling, sizing each other up, or getting a little too feral.
Please do not wear pup gear.
That would be weird.
This is not that kind of event.
You should also not expect to be hit, bitten, scratched, chased, tackled, or barked at.
Everyone will behave in a calm, civilized, human manner at all times.
And definitely do not bring treats or strange little trinkets to place bets.
There will be nothing to wager on.
Because nothing is happening.
This is simply a normal night.
With normal people.
Doing normal things.
We trust you will conduct yourselves accordingly.
Age 21+.
Tickets: 22.22 w/promo code: dogfight
Leather Care 101 with Special Guest nocturneblue
CLASS DESCRIPTION
Bring your leathers and saddle soap! Or don't! Leather Care 101 is a class for folks looking to maintain their current leathers or learn a little for future leather adventures. Every leather enthusiast has their routine and preferences for leather care. As such, this class will not be the ultimate guide on leather care, but suggestions from one enthusiast with a few years of experimentation.
If you have a pair of boots or a harness that's been begging you to condition it, this is your opportunity to get a second opinion and work on your leathers in a class setting. This class will be a short lecture, followed by a workshop for folks to mess about with their leathers and ask questions. Some basic leather care supplies will be available, but supplies are limited. There will also be a small selection of leather goods provided by Blue for folks to clean if they don't have any leathers themselves.
By the end of this class, participants will have an understanding of the function and use of leather care supplies (soaps, conditioners, oils, brushes, polish, and miscellaneous supplies). Participants will know the difference in some types of leather and their care needs. Finally, participants will have time to clean their leathers (optional) with time to ask questions about their specific leathers.
Attendee supplies- OPTIONAL, the presenter will supply limited extras.
Leathers (cuffs, boots, any gear you want to clean).
Leather care supplies
This is a class designed for beginners, but is open to all levels of experience.
Presenter Bio
nocturneBlue (they/them) is a queer leather worker and part-time dog out of D.C. with a passion for leather care. They seek to share their perspective as a leather worker from a non-kink background. As a chronic horse-girl, Blue has been cleaning and maintaining leathers for over a decade. Owner of Nocturne Blue Leather, they are passionate about making high-quality leathers for all folks. Their favorite color is blue and they like leather.
Age 21+.
Tickets: 11.11 w/promo code: bootblack
You MUST pre-purchase a ticket to attend! Due to the salacious nature of our events, the address of our private space will be included in your ticketing email.